Masturbation
Self pleasure is natural, fun and healthy
Despite this facts, masturbation has been a taboo subject for a long time, creating false myths that led to the idiocy or madness or it was a habit of immature people.
It is a fallacy that masturbation has no place in a healthy sex life. It could be argued quite the opposite: a part of sexual pleasure, the fact masturbate allows oneself to become better acquainted with your own body. Couple relationships become benefited with this increased self-knowledge: for men, masturbation can be a way to learn how to contain, control ejaculation and be a better lover. For women, masturbation can discover the most sensitive areas of their body and learn to get aroused. The anthropologist Margaret Mead found that in cultures in which masturbation is allowed and accepted part of female sexuality, women are much easier to reach orgasm. The woman who jerks off is satisfied, knows her body and learn the rhythm that likes to lead, and may then guide her partner and improve relationships. People who are in touch with their own sexuality are more confident and are better lovers.
Positive aspects of masturbation
- It's nice, fun and enjoyable.
- It's healthy and natural, and the only form of having sex without risk of diseases and unwanted pregnancy.
- It is a healthy way to relax, obviously much better than taking a tranquilizer.
- Helps to sleep better.
- Allows to know what you like sexually and thus guide your partner to improve your sex.
- Let you to control the pace of caresses, arousal, pleasure, sometimes one gets better orgasms than in other forms of sex.
Male masturbation
The man reaches orgasm with the stimulation of the penis erect state. The most common is to use a hand to wrap the erect penis with your fingers and slide your hand up and down over the penis. This technique produces the maximum contact between the hand and the penis. You can try other techniques such as those described here. Let you carry away by your imagination and fantasies and test vagina simulators , such as some types of fruit (watermelon, cantaloupe), a roll of toilet paper, pillows, or using an inflatable doll.
The anal penetracion is something that can enhance the intensity of your orgasm during masturbation, regardless of whether you are heterosexual or homosexual. There are many men who enjoy penetration with the fingers of his partner or vibrators during a sexual act. Try to sit crouching on a well lubricated vibrator and gradually placing in your anus. You will be more comfortable as you guide the vibrator with your hand during insertion. Once the vibrator is inserted, you can move up and down on it while stroking your penis at the same time. This will produce a very intense feeling as you reach a strong ejaculation.
Female masturbation
Of course, women also masturbate. Although due to poor sex education, women's masturbation has become an issue much more taboo than male masturbation. Today, there are still many women who do not masturbate, and many others that even if they do, they feel discomfort or perpetrators to that fact. It is not an issue that many women share with friends or even with their partners. The truth is that the female masturbation is a safe and healthy way to satisfy the sexual instincts and learn about one's own body and your sexual response.
As you touch yourself, you enjoy time with your own body, make your voluptuosness awaken, and shape your fantasies. Explore, test, investigate. Once the water jet shower, the other with water flow of pressurized jets of a Jacuzzi, on the edge of a lonely beach letting the waves collide against your body, with friction between the pillow legs, rubbing your panties, with the palm of your hand, with an object or sex toy as a vibrator, a fruit in the form of a penis with your fingers.
